End of Life DouLa support
A gentle, steady companion for the threshold between worlds.
When death approaches life becomes tender in new ways. Time takes on a different shape. The heart asks for honesty. The body asks for gentleness.
As an end-of-life doula or death doula in Missoula, Montana, I offer calm companionship, practical guidance, and grounded emotional support for individuals and families navigating this sacred passage. My work is to help you and your loved one(s) orient toward what matters: wishes, values, rituals, and moments of meaningful closure.
This is a space where breath slows, stories matter, and transitions are honored with great care, dignity, and presence.
What Doula Support Includes
Doula care brings:
A grounded, comforting presence
Emotional support for individuals and caregivers
Guidance for vigil preparation and end-of-life wishes
Assistance with rituals, spiritual preferences, and meaningful closure
Gentle help after death, including care in the first-moments
Collaboration with hospice and palliative care teams
Support is always shaped around your needs, your pace, and your values.
Services Offered
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Each offering is designed to support your whole being, bringing dignity and companionship through the final season of life.
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Orientation Session
A conversation to explore what you’re carrying, what support is needed, and what you hope for in this next chapter. Plenty of space to ask questions and understand the options available to you.
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Restorative Support for End of Life & Caregiving
Restorative yoga, guided meditation, and/or Reiki healing to support the body, mind, and spirit during illness, caregiving, or grief.
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Vigil Planning & Ritual Creation
Together, we craft a meaningful vigil that reflects your emotional, spiritual, and sensory wishes. Includes planning, resource sharing, and guidance.
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Vigil and After-Death Support
Grounded presence at the bedside during the final days and hours with gentle guidance for those gathered. Includes space-holding, reassurance, and support with rituals or spiritual preferences.
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Home Funeral Guidance
For families choosing a slower or more hands-on approach to after-death care, I provide education, emotional support, and step-by-step guidance.
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Downsizing & Home Transition Support
Thoughtful help sorting belongings, simplifying home spaces, or preparing for transitions before or after death.
Doula Care Packages
All packages are completely customizable. We shape them together to meet your needs.
Payment plans and sliding scale options are always available.
No one is turned away for financial reasons. If cost is a concern, please reach out.
The Comfort Path
For grounding, emotional presence, and gentle guidance
Includes:
Orientation session
4 restorative support sessions
Practical resources for vigil planning
Personalized check-ins
Package begins at $250, depending on session length and location.
The Vigil path
For families preparing for an expected death or for planners wanting ritual support
Includes:
Orientation session
Vigil planning and preferences conversation
Hands-on support creating rituals and shaping the environment
On-call availability during final days for vigil presence before or after death
Package begins at $400, depending on needs
The continum Path
Consistent, all-encompassing support before, during, and after death
Includes:
Orientation session
Weekly restorative support sessions for the individual or their circle of care
Vigil planning and preferences conversation
Hands-on support creating rituals and shaping the environment
On-call availability during final days for vigil presence before or after death
Home funeral support (if desired)
Home transition assistance
Package begins at $1,000 — tailored to your needs.
Who I serve
Individuals facing terminal illness who want care that honors their whole self
Families and circles of care preparing for the dying process
Caregivers seeking clarity and moments of peace
Those planning ahead to shape their own end-of-life experience
Anyone wanting grounded, compassionate support through final days and beyond
I travel to homes, care facilities, and hospice settings in Missoula, Montana and the surrounding area.
Let’s Connect
The first step is simple conversation.
We talk about your needs, questions, and hopes. You can feel out if I’m the right person to walk this threshold with you.
We’ll take it one step at a time, with no pressure or urgency.
My Approach
My work extends deep respect for the emotional, spiritual, and logistical needs of each person and circle of care. I meet you exactly where you are—steady, openhearted, and without judgment. What you need is honored. What you don’t need is left alone.
If a hospice or palliative care team is in place, I will collaborate to support and complement their care
I believe death is a profound threshold.
How we move through it matters.
You deserve support that is grounded, compassionate, and deeply human.
Here when you’re ready.
Whether you are planning ahead, caring for someone you love, or nearing the final days, I am here to walk beside you with softness and clarity.
Reach out when you are ready. There’s no right timing.
Common Questions
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An end-of-life doula provides holistic emotional, spiritual, and practical support for individuals and families during the dying process. I offer comfort and companionship, ritual creation, nervous system support, and guidance before, during, and after death to ease the burden on loved ones so they can be present. My goal is to help you or your loved one achieve a peaceful death.
I do not replace medical care — I complement it with steady, compassionate companionship. -
No.
I most often work alongside hospice and palliative teams.
Hospice manages medical needs; I support the emotional, relational, and ritual aspects of the end of life. Families often say this combination feels holistic or complete. -
If you’re feeling unsure, overwhelmed, unprepared, or simply wanting a more intentional experience, a doula can help. Many people reach out when:
a hospice referral is made
a loved one’s condition is changing
family members need guidance or rest
someone wants to plan ahead
The complimentary orientation session is the best place to start.
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When possible, yes!
If a death is expected in the coming hours or days, reach out. I’ll let you know my availability as quickly as humanly possible. -
Absolutely. Caregivers often need grounding and support just as much as (sometimes even more than) the person who is dying. Sessions are designed for either or both.
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Yes, depending on your needs and my availability.
Vigil support can include daytime presence, evening hours, or extended bedside companionship during the final days. -
A home funeral is an approach to after-death care led by the circle of care that happens at home rather than immediately transferring the body to a funeral home.
I provide education, emotional support, planning, and step-by-step guidance so families know what is allowed, possible, and what may be meaningful. -
Yes. All services are flexible and can be shaped to meet your needs, timeline, and comfort level. We create a plan together. I prefer to provide transparent and upfront pricing so you know what to expect, but we can adapt along the way.
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I offer in-home support throughout Missoula and nearby areas. This is often in a personal residence, care facility, or hospice setting. Please contact me if your location is outside of Missoula to confirm availability.